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Friday, July 22, 2011

Kid in the Suit

DAYS REMAINING: 28

Fanciest guest Quentin models his wedding suit / cover of his 70s rock album.Thanks to parents David and Miranda!

Thursday, July 14, 2011

Candy Candy Candy I Can't Let You Go

At first, I didn't have time to update the blog because we were too busy planning the wedding to have time to talk about the wedding on the blog. But as plans continue to fall into place and only the endless, devilish details remain, I'm realizing that most of the reason I'm having trouble updating is because, as things get done, I realize I don't want to scoop the whole weekend by publishing revealing details about it in advance. If I told you I was convinced the reception was going to devolve into a frenzy of drunken karaoke at about 10pm, what would be left to the imagination when that...thing...totally happens?

So, instead, the story of something that isn't happening.

As part of our fancy gift bags that will be waiting for our guests upon their arrival at the hotel, we were planning on including a cute addition we discovered at the wedding of some friends a while back. They made personalized M&Ms, on which you can print anything you want...images, text, pictures of your cat. In their case, as I recollect, it was pictures of them, the happy couple, mixed with pictures of their cat. Or maybe it was just their cat. Either way, everyone loved them. It was all very adorable.

But when you're getting married in Iceland (which we are, or what a strange name for a blog!), sometimes you run into some strange, unexpected snags in planning, such as: not having the symbol for an "o"-with-a-strange-line-over-it-on-your-computer-keyboard (tricky when you're respectfully trying to compose an email to someone called "Haflið") or finding out that a bridge you're supposed to drive over on your honeymoon is closed due to a mystical family of trolls found living underneath it. In the Mysterious Case of the Unshippable M&Ms, the trouble this time was customs.

Back to our American-wed friends, who took their custom-made, cat-emblazoned M&Ms, stuffed them in some lovely organza (other secret perk of planning a wedding: finally learning what organza is!) bags, and drove them to Pennsylvania. It was a lovely wedding, to be sure, and when we started planning our own, Eric went straight to the M&Ms website and ordered silver and blue (how icy!) M&Ms with our grooms logo stamped right on them:

I know...awesome! With our names and the date on the back! You should see the logo on the M&Ms!

And, as it turns out, so should we. Because shortly after submitting our order, Eric received the following email back from M&Ms customer service:

Dear Valued Customer,
Thank you for your email. We appreciate your interest in MY M&M’s® and will be happy to assist you with your inquiry.

We regret to inform you that the country you requested a shipment to is one of several where customs laws and restrictions prohibit our product. This decision is not based from Mars Direct and is solely based on customs.

The countries that our products cannot be received include: Argentina, Andorra, Belgium, Brazil, China, Colombia, Cuba, Denmark, Dominican Republic, France, Germany, Guam, Iceland, India, Iran, Italy, Japan, Jordan, Korea, Lebanon, Libya, Macau, Mexico, Myanmar, North Korea, Philippines, Portugal, Russia, Saudi Arabia, Singapore, Spain, Sudan, Syria, Taiwan, Thailand, Trinidad & Tobago, Turkey, UAE, Venezuela, and Vietnam.

Thank you again for your inquiry; we hope you find this information helpful and we look forward to assisting you in the future.

Sincerely,
Your friends at MY M&M’s®\Bonnie

Listen.

Bonnie.

Here's the deal. We decided not to have the M&Ms shipped here, because then we would still be bringing them into Iceland ourselves, which fazes me as alternately a) illegal and b) melty. But two boys decided not to get married in North Korea, Sudan, Syria, and Saudia Arabia for a reason (illegal, death-y), and our hope was that we could celebrate internationally with some American candy. Because Icelandic candy? It's salted licorice and something that tastes like Kix cereal covered in weird chocolate.

But then I took back my knock against Icelandic candy, because nothing -- NOTHING -- is better than what we ended up getting for our table favors. And for those, we just have to wait until we got to Iceland to pick them up.

Sunday, July 10, 2011

Low Bridge (Everybody Down)


From: Nordic Visitor
Date: Sat, Jul 10, 2011
Subject: Your upcoming trip to Iceland


You have probably seen that our volcanoes have been popular news items lately, but we can report that there are no volcanic eruptions happening at the moment.

However, we do want to update you about damage to Iceland’s major highway, the Ring Road (Route 1), in rural South Iceland. In the early hours of Saturday, July 9th a flood from the nearby Mýrdalsjökull glacier washed away a bridge in the sparsely-populated Múlakvísl area.

We are happy to report that nobody was harmed. It is important to note that the Iceland Civil Protection Department has a good handle on natural events like these and is proficient in protecting the health and safety of the public. 

At this time, the Icelandic Meteorological Office is unable to confirm if sub-glacial volcanic activity caused the flooding, but they do not believe this is a sign of any imminent volcanic eruption. Also, there are no other indications of further flooding. Scientists will continue to monitor the situation closely.

Meanwhile, the Iceland Road Administration is evaluating the damage and has begun preparations for repairs. According to the latest reports, bridge repairs may take roughly two weeks so even if your itinerary takes you across the affected area it is unlikely that your holiday plans will be impacted

There is already a detour open to 4WD vehicles and it is estimated that the detour will soon be able to accommodate all vehicle types. 

As this situation may change, we will send you another update after the weekend with the latest status of the repairs and details about the detour.

You may be wondering what this means for your planned holiday around Iceland, so we have taken steps to assure minimal travel disruptions for our customers. See details below.

Saturday, July 9, 2011

Money For Something


Comprehensive article about how/when/why to exchange your money abroad. We would definitely recommend calling your credit card/ATM company to make sure they won't turn your card off when you buy something in Iceland, leaving you cold and poor.

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Exchanging Your Money Abroad: 10 Simple Tips


One question I see a lot in the user forums here on Fodors.com is how best to get foreign currency when traveling abroad. When I first started traveling abroad, there were two basic choices: take and exchange cash or take and exchange traveler's checks. I usually did the latter. How times have changed. Now, anyone younger than 25 might look at me with a raised eyebrow if I mentioned a traveler's check. But the question still persists. With bank fees rising every year and exchange rates seemingly in constant flux, what's the best way to change your money? There are many threads on this subject in our user forums. Here are some simple rules to follow.

Ten Simple Rules for Exchanging Your Money




1. ATMs are still the best choice for day-to-day funds.

Although some banks have high fees to use foreign ATMs, not to mention adding on high foreign-transaction fees (Bank of America, for example, charges $5 per withdrawal plus 3% premium on top of each withdrawal at a non-partner ATM), the ATM is still almost always the cheapest option for changing your money. And if your bank has international ATMs or partner banks abroad, you can sometimes save a little on your cash withdrawals; that's true even at BOA, which charges just 1% at member banks and no other fees. Capitol One Bank charges nothing for a foreign ATM withdrawal, while other banks such as Chase charge 3% on top of every withdrawal as well as a $3 fee. It pays to shop around for a bank if you travel a lot internationally.

2. "No-fee" bureau de change are usually the most expensive places to change money.

When you see a sign that offers "no-fee" currency exchange, be sure to check the rates. You'll notice that they are almost always significantly worse than what you'd get if you had simply taken money out of an ATM. It's a good idea to keep up to date on the latest Interbank rates (the rates banks pay for foreign currency) to find out if you are getting a good deal. A web site like www.xe.com can give you those rates, which change daily. At best, you normally pay between 4% and 9% of the total amount you are exchanging to change money into a foreign currency, and this cost is usually built into the bad exchange rate. You pay again to change your euros or pounds back into dollars, so think carefully how much cash you actually need on a day to day basis.

3. If you need a lot of cash, ask your bank to raise your daily withdrawal limit.

Say you are renting an apartment for a week in Rome or Paris and you need a lot of euros at once to pay the landlord, your bank may be able to raise your daily withdrawal limit temporarily to allow you to withdraw much more money than you would normally be allowed to take out. ATMs may have smaller withdrawal limits, but you can make multiple withdrawals from the same ATM or from several ATMs in that case. If you can't get enough cash to pay for a week in advance, perhaps your landlord will allow you to pay in several installments throughout your stay. If you have a traveling companion, you can both withdraw cash to make the initial payment.

4. Never take a cash advance on your credit card except in a dire emergency.

If you take cash from a foreign ATM, you will pay a fee; you'll be charged a percentage on top of your withdrawal as a foreign-transaction charge; and you will start to pay very high interest (sometimes up to double the regular interest rate you are charged on your credit card) the moment the cash reaches your hands. It's a pretty bad deal. Avoid it at all costs unless you have no other choice. Bank of America has pretty egregious fees, as posters in our forums have found.

5. Use credit cards for large purchases.

Most credit cards charge a foreign-transaction fee of between 1% and 3% whenever you buy something abroad, but this is still the safest and often the cheapest way to make a large purchase. You'll almost always come out ahead on the conversion since credit cards add their fee on top of the Interbank rate. So you are almost always getting the best possible rate of exchange even though you are paying a fee. (And some banks, like Capital One, still do not charge anything extra for foreign purchases beyond the 1% that Visa and Mastercard charge; some credit unions also have very low fees, though membership in credit unions is usually limited.) Other banks, including Citibank, really gouge consumers by charge a 3% foreign-transaction fee even if the purchase is made in U.S. dollars.

6. Avoid dynamic currency conversion.

If you are ever given the opportunity to charge your purchase abroad in U.S. dollars, decline. In fact, you should insist that you be charged in the local currency. So-called dynamic currency conversion not only offers lousy exchange rates, but it also includes hidden fees, and your own credit card will charge you its own foreign-transaction fee on top of the cost of the purchase. In effect, you will be paying double the fees and getting a bad exchange to boot. You might pay a 10% premium for a purchase. Here is one discussion of the process from our forums. Just remember, you are always charged a foreign-transaction fee by your credit card company (if it charges such fees) whether your purchase is made in dollars or foreign currency.

7. Don't make purchases with your debit card abroad.

It's very simple. Use your debit/ATM card to make cash withdrawals. Don't use it to make purchases. If something goes awry, your account will be debited immediately for the purchase; even if you return something for a refund, your account may not be credited for several days (perhaps for more than a week if the purchase is made abroad). If a sales clerk makes a mistake, it could take several days for an erroneous charge to be credited back to your account. With a credit card, you might never notice that a particular charge has appeared and disappeared because it will never show up on your statement. But it's different with a bank account. The money actually disappears and may not come back for several days even if it's an error or even if a transaction is cancelled. You might need that cash in the meantime.

8. The Chip-and-PIN situation in Europe.

Most European countries now offer credit and debit cards with a computer chip that requires a PIN to activate and make a purchase. This is especially common in automated ticket machines in Europe, even on European toll roads. If your credit or debit card doesn't have a chip and PIN (hardly any U.S. credit or debit cards do), then you may not be able to buy a ticket from a machine with your card. Although both Visa and Mastercard promise U.S. cardholders that their cards are usable anywhere in the world where they should be accepted with just a signature, you may still have some occasional problems in Europe using your card. Posters in our user forums have discussed this issue here. The subject was also covered earlier this year on SmarterTravel.com.

9. Traveler's Checks are a good fallback in an emergency.

Although the predominance of ATMs has made some people feel that the simple traveler's check is a relic of a bygone era, it can still be a godsend in an emergency. It's true that few places in the world still accept traveler's checks as payment. Normally, you must change them in a bank and will be charged a hefty fee for the privilege (though in some destinations like Mexico, it can be difficult to find a bank that will exchange your traveler's checks). But if you can buy your traveler's checks without paying a fee, they are a good fallback as an emergency stash of cash. And if you have American Express checks, they can still be cashed in an Amex office abroad. While these aren't as prevalent as they once were, they are still found all over Europe and in many other countries.

10. A Ben Franklin is also a great emergency reserve.

A crisp, new US$100 bill is also a good fallback as an emergency reserve of cash. While I would not travel abroad with a big stack of cash, having a single $100 bill somewhere separate from your other travel money is a great idea. Even if you lose substantially on the currency exchange, it's a currency that's accepted worldwide.

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Friday, July 8, 2011

Iceland Express Yourself

We've only been neglecting the blog because we are officially too busy planning the wedding to have time to say anything about it, but it seemed worth passing along this hot Icelandic gossip for those of you who still haven’t booked air travel (even though, to my knowledge, that list actually only includes one person). But friend/guest/favorite human Emily passed along the following, which I’m passing along as well:

I've been watching the Reykjavik-NYC plane tickets like a miserly hawk, and Iceland Express just dropped their prices like $70. Hopefully because it's a great sale and not because they're in the middle of a PR nightmare I didn't hear about yet. So if anyone else hasn't bought their tickets to/from your wedding, they should probably do it now.

Happy almost wedding!!